Denial

Don't live your life in denial.  There's no question in my mind that years lived in denial are not worth one tenth of the years you live when you accept the painful truth you are faced with every day.  Accept it and face it immediately.  There's no good time to face your worst problem. 

We are all responsible for making ourselves happy. 

Looking back on the most painful changes of my life, I realized that I had been living in denial since before my second child was born.  Nothing can prepare you for that realization.  12 of the 15 years I was married.  Don't hold out, waiting for proof for 10 years, when you know what's wrong.  Face it and fight it now.

First Post

How original... the title to my first post is, "First Post." The first advice I offer is to myself: put more than five seconds into your titles.